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May 27th, 2009 at 01:17 am

I hate bugging people about my job. But I have been working at job A for 8 days. I have it about 80% down. My boss has put in a fair amount of time showing me software, procedures and stuff. It is mildly stressful, likely to be not at all stressful when I have the hang of it. I like it. I don't love it. Nothing too exciting, but it's pleasant. It pays $10 hr and maybe $50 week commission (depends). No benefits/no vacation (though I can take a day off here and there- the boss is cool.)/no raise till December.

Job B at the University has called again. They want to set up a job interview for 1.5 weeks from now. They want to fill the position by early July. It's a sales job, meeting quotas (I think I will be good at it), and don't know much else about it. I asked for $15 hr and was told it would not be a problem. Don't know about benefits/vacation/raises/commission.

I am kind of 'invested' in job A, and feel they are 'invested' in me.

I kind of want to approach job A and explain the situation. That job B might be available, and will pay $15 hr and I don't want to leave Job A, I like it, but cannot pass up the extra $5 hr. Then ask if Job A can match it.

I feel that Job A will then think "well- she is worth that pay, but what if she comes back to us in 1 month and asks for another raise? Whoever heard of an employee threatening for a raise after 1 week? When will it stop?"

So- suggestions?

I know everyone is going to come at me that I should interview first then worry about this. But if I interview for Job B, I need to take time off work at Job A- and would rather not go through the guilt of lying- or living in this "what do I do?" mindset.

14 Responses to “Need help”

  1. tynana Says:
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    Gee, let's look at this. You are currently working at a job (8 days) that is not all that bad but not exciting and the pay is $10.00 per hour. The boss is cool. How about the other co-workers? You have a unknown except for the income part. What is important to you? Is it pay and a job with possibly more stress, not so great boss, possible benefits. I took a job making $10.50 per hour and love it! It is the best job ever. I was making $17.00 at last job and would not leave the current job if offered $20.00 per hour and I could use the money. Once again, what are YOU looking for? Good luck with your decision. I would not mention the possible job interview to your current employer - it really says that you may leave anytime that something more attractive comes up.

  2. Apprentice Bliss Hunter Says:
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    You know what I'm gonna say... btw isn't it great that you could be choosing between jobs in this economy (if you get job B).

    Interview Job B - find out about benefits etc. Wait to see if you're offered Job B. If yes, decide which will make you happier...

    Try not to overthink it... in 10yrs time, you probably won't even remember these couple of weeks !!

  3. L Saver Says:
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    I agree about interviewing and waiting to see about job B before approaching job A to ask for a raise. It's always better to do it with an offer in hand.

    Also, when you take time off to interview for job B, can you just say you need time off for personal reasons. I'm assuming you don't get paid if you are not at your job, so it's not like you are being paid while you are on your interview?

    Whatever you decide to do -- good luck! I know situations like this can be stressful...

  4. gamecock43 Says:
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    ok, I will wait to interview with job B. Everyone is right. I am lucky to have this employment problem in this economy.

  5. SicilyYoder Says:
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    I would interview with job B, too. What if you end of liking job B better and then get $5.00 more an hour- sounds like a win-win situation to me. You said that you think you would be, "good at it", too, so maybe you will like it, and it will be fun. I would wait. I left a job as a trauma Registered Nurse ACLS to go back to school to double major in business and textiles and home ec. Did I take a cut, you bet, but I absolutely love what I do now.

  6. creditcardfree Says:
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    Such is life as an employer. They may train someone and they may leave, or they may stay years. Just the way it is. Do not feel guilt over this.

  7. Ima saver Says:
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    Just want to wish you good luck!

  8. monkeymama Says:
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    I'd wait too.

    Benefits at a public university would generally be pretty good. Not sure aboue private - or which type it is you are looking at.

  9. fern Says:
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    First of all, you have to treat your career as a "business." Meaning, don't let feelings of guilt or anything else get in the way of furthering your position. Employer A would not hesitate to lay you off with no notice at all if they needed to, so pls don't feel bad about possibly leaving them for Job B. Eight days on a job is nothing.

    Next, don't say anything to employer A until and if you get an offer from Employer B. Then, instead of trying to play one off the other, make up your mind which job you'd rather have, and take it.

  10. debtfreeme Says:
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    I agree that you should interview with job B and see what happens.

    $5 more an hour is a 50% raise. You have to expect that your boss is not going to give it to you.

    Does the uni job have additional benefits (insurance, retirement, tuition reimbursment?) that would make the job paying more in the long run than just the salary difference.

    but the real question is, is either of these jobs something you want to be doing for a long time?

  11. gamecock43 Says:
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    All very good advice. I need to wait and see. I need to be patient. I will wait for my interview in 2 weeks.

  12. lizajane Says:
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    No new advice here. Tell job A you have an "appointment", take the time and interview at job B. "Appointment" is vague - could be doctor, dentist, haircut, tanning, interview, dog walking, whatever you want it to be. If job B makes an offer and you think you would like it better, I say go for it. I've worked places in the corporate world where people did the same thing. 1 month into a job they got a better offer, and jumped. 1 month invested is just a blip on the radar.

  13. whitestripe Says:
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    lol - i came in late to this discussion, so all i can say is... can't wait to hear what happens in two weeks! keep us posted!

  14. frugaltexan75 Says:
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    I'm with Whitestripe - interested to hear what happens. Smile

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